How we work
01Enquire A short note or call to share what you're navigating. No commitment. · 02Intake conversation Confidential one-to-one chats with each party so I understand the situation and the people inside it. · 03The work itself The mediation, retreat, or circle, paced and shaped to fit the dispute and the people in it. · 04Integration Discussing what the agreement looks like in practice, and using ritual to let it be more than just words on paper. · 05Aftercare Check-ins to keep agreements alive and support what comes next.

Holistic Dispute Resolution takes the objectives of a formal mediation, which is to create an agreement, and weaves the space around it to be in service of the human need for comfort and care through a wellness centered lens.

This process is confidential and non-binding unless an agreement is signed. This process is facilitated impartially, in that both parties will be heard and attended to, in service of the human and the dispute.

Choose the shape that fits the dispute.

A Holistic Mediation In person or online

Holistic Mediation

These are structured mediations offered in person at my West Cork practice, in a nature retreat, or online. These are always warm and wellness-informed.

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    Joint or shuttle sessions

    We meet together, or I move between parties. The format is shaped by what serves both safety and genuine progress. These sessions will include grounding activities such as breathing exercises or sound baths, breaks during the sessions, a closing ritual, and more. These sessions will be designed with communication and a supportive space.

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    Wellness-informed intake

    Each party has a private, unhurried conversation with me before we begin. It is the first act of care in the process.

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    Documented outcomes

    Where it serves, the session closes with a written summary or signed agreement, a record of what was reached, in the parties' own words.

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    Confidential throughout

    What is said in the session stays in the session. That certainty is what allows honesty.

B Conflict Resolution Retreats For complex disputes · Held on the West Cork coast

Holistic Conflict Retreats

A retreat offers something a single session cannot: dedicated time. These retreats is an immersion in the resolution process. They include a full agenda of wellness activities and conflict resolution meetings.

These retreats best serve complex disputes, multi-party disputes, organizational or departmental disputes, and more.

Who this serves

Relational repair · Workplace conflict · Victim-Offender Mediations · Higher Education Disputes · Restorative justice · Co-founder disputes · Community grievances · Cross-cultural dialogue · Survivor/Perpetrator circles

Begin a conversation

Every engagement starts with a quiet conversation.

Whether a single session might serve, or a multi-day retreat is the right shape, we'll find out together. Introductory calls are free, confidential, and unhurried.

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Restorative practices is centered around proactively creating interpersonal relationships and community. It also contains reactive elements such as restorative justice.

With Restorative Practices, we can delve into fractures within departments and communities, and enhance dialogue and co-create a culture of respect.

Role of the facilitator

Restorative Practices is only as beneficial as the skills of the person holding the process.

My role is to set the structure, agreements, and pace of establishing Restorative Practices in your community. This kind of culture has always been there, and my job is to bring it out.

What does this look like

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    Developing Restorative Practices policies and procedures for your organisation or department

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    Facilitating Restorative Circles in service of group agreements, or in reaction to harm towards the community

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    Developing Restorative Justice procedures when individual harm has occurred

How a Restorative Circle unfolds

Good facilitation should almost feel invisible.

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Intake Meeting

I meet with each participant one-on-one before the circle. No agenda. Just a sense of what's true for each person.

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Designing the container

Together we shape the agreements, the questions, the rhythm and what this particular circle needs to be safe and useful.

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Holding the circle

The session itself, anywhere from two hours to a full day.

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Follow-through

We will document agreements, schedule check-ins, and support you in the work that lives between sessions.

Who this serves

Higher Education Institutes · Sports · Workplaces · Individual conflicts · Community Grievances · Survivor/Perpetrator Circles

Bring Restorative Practices to your community.

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Our prevention programming is focused on discrimination, harassment, retaliation, and gender-based violence. This work is offered to schools, community groups, and local government on a sliding scale.

What this work includes

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    Creating policies and procedures for prevention programming in your institution

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    Trauma-informed staff training

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    Community response after public harm

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    Developing prevention policies and procedures

Bring this work to your community

Every programme is shaped to the context.

Whether schools, government, business, or community, tell me what's happening and we'll design something that fits.

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